Selling the family home and moving somewhere smaller sounds like a simple plan. You pocket the profit, cut your monthly bills, and enjoy a lighter load. Many retirees picture it that way.
But the reality is more complicated. Downsizing comes with costs that catch people off guard. Some are financial. Some are emotional. And some are hidden in the fine print of tax law.
Before you list your home, here is what you need to know about the money side of downsizing.
The Promise of Downsizing
The basic math is easy to understand. A smaller home usually means:
- A lower mortgage payment (or none at all)
- Smaller utility bills
- Less money spent on repairs and upkeep
- Lower property taxes
- Reduced homeowner’s insurance
For many retirees, these savings add up to hundreds of dollars every month. That money can go toward travel, healthcare, or simply building a bigger financial cushion.
If your current home has gone up in value, you may also walk away with a large check at closing. That cash can boost your retirement savings in a big way.
So far, so good. But here is where things get tricky.
The Costs That Surprise People
Real Estate Commissions and Closing Costs
Selling a home is not free. You will typically pay 5% to 6% of the sale price in agent commissions. On a $400,000 home, that is $20,000 to $24,000.
Add in closing costs like title insurance, transfer taxes, and attorney fees. These run another 1% to 3% of the sale price.
Then you have costs on the buying side too. Your new, smaller home will come with its own closing costs, inspection fees, and possibly points on a new mortgage.
All told, the transaction costs of selling one home and buying another can eat up 8% to 10% of your sale price. On a $400,000 home, that is $32,000 to $40,000 before you even start packing.
Moving Expenses
A local move might cost $2,000 to $5,000. A long-distance move can run $5,000 to $15,000 or more. If you need to store belongings during the transition, add storage fees on top of that.
Many retirees also spend money getting rid of things. Estate sale companies take a cut. Junk removal services charge by the truckload. Even donating items costs time and sometimes money.
Renovation and Repair Costs
Your current home may need work before it sells. Buyers expect a home in good shape, and your agent may recommend updates to get the best price.
Fresh paint, new carpet, minor repairs, and staging can easily cost $5,000 to $15,000. Major fixes like a new roof or updated kitchen push that number much higher.
Your new home may need changes too. Maybe you want to add grab bars, widen doorways, or update the bathroom for aging in place. These modifications add to your total cost.
Tax Rules You Should Understand
The Capital Gains Exclusion
When you sell your primary home, the IRS lets you exclude up to $250,000 in profit from capital gains tax ($500,000 for married couples filing jointly). This is one of the best tax breaks available.
But there are rules:
- You must have owned the home for at least 2 of the last 5 years
- You must have lived in it as your primary residence for at least 2 of the last 5 years
- You can only use this exclusion once every 2 years
If your profit exceeds the exclusion amount, you will owe capital gains tax on the difference. The federal rate is 15% or 20% for most retirees, depending on your income. Some states add their own capital gains tax on top of that.
How Your Sale Affects Other Income
A large home sale can push your income up for the year, even with the exclusion. This spike in income can trigger:
- Higher Medicare premiums (through IRMAA surcharges) for the next year or two
- More of your Social Security benefits becoming taxable
- Higher state income tax brackets
These ripple effects are easy to miss. A tax advisor can help you plan the timing of your sale to reduce the damage.
Property Tax Surprises
Some states offer property tax breaks for seniors or long-time homeowners. When you sell and buy a new home, you may lose these protections.
Your new home’s property tax assessment will be based on the purchase price, not the lower assessed value you may have enjoyed for years. In some cases, your property taxes actually go up after downsizing.
California’s Proposition 19 lets seniors transfer their tax base to a new home in certain situations. A few other states have similar programs. Check your state’s rules before you move.
The Emotional Cost Nobody Talks About
This is not a financial cost, but it affects your finances. Many retirees underestimate how hard it is to leave a home full of memories.
Some people rush the process and accept a low offer just to get it over with. Others delay for years and miss the best market conditions. Still others buy a new home that is too expensive because they want to recreate the feeling of their old one.
Being honest about the emotional side can actually save you money. Give yourself enough time. Talk to family and friends. And do not let emotions drive your financial decisions.
Smart Strategies for Downsizing
Run the Real Numbers First
Before you decide, make a detailed spreadsheet. Include:
- Your expected sale price (get a professional estimate)
- All selling costs (commissions, closing costs, repairs)
- The price of your new home
- All buying costs
- Moving expenses
- Tax impacts
- The difference in monthly costs (old home vs. new home)
Calculate how many months of savings it will take to break even on the transaction costs. For some people, it takes 3 to 5 years just to recoup the cost of moving.
Consider Renting First
You do not have to buy right away. Renting for a year or two after selling gives you time to:
- Try out a new area before committing
- Invest your home sale profits
- Wait for the right home at the right price
- Avoid the pressure of buying and selling at the same time
Time Your Sale Carefully
Work with a tax advisor to choose the best year to sell. If you had a low-income year, selling during that year could mean lower capital gains taxes and smaller Medicare surcharges.
Spring and early summer are typically the best seasons for selling a home. But local market conditions matter more than national trends.
Look Into Age-Restricted Communities
Many 55-plus communities offer smaller, low-maintenance homes with built-in social opportunities. Some also include amenities like fitness centers, pools, and clubhouses in the HOA fee.
Just be sure to factor that HOA fee into your monthly budget. Fees of $300 to $600 per month are common, and they tend to go up over time.
Do Not Forget About Accessibility
If you plan to stay in your new home for 15 or 20 years, think about what you will need as you age. A single-story layout, wide doorways, a walk-in shower, and good lighting can save you from another expensive move later.
When Downsizing Does Not Make Sense
Downsizing is not right for everyone. It may not be your best move if:
- You live in an area where smaller homes cost almost as much as larger ones
- Your current home is paid off with low property taxes
- You would lose valuable senior tax exemptions by moving
- The transaction costs would eat most of your profit
- You are not emotionally ready
Sometimes, staying put and finding other ways to reduce costs makes more sense. You might rent out a room, refinance, or tap into a home equity line of credit instead.
The Bottom Line
Downsizing can be a great financial move in retirement. But it is not the automatic win that many people assume. The hidden costs, tax impacts, and emotional toll are real.
Do the math. Talk to a tax advisor. Give yourself time. And make sure the numbers truly work in your favor before you put that “For Sale” sign in the yard.
The best financial decisions in retirement are the ones you make with your eyes wide open.
Reported by Robert A. Williams with additional research from the SeniorDaily editorial team. For corrections or updates, please contact us.